Transition Home Collaborative

A peer community supporting teens and parents as they navigate life after treatment — with steadiness, connection, and shared experience.

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The Purpose of This Collaborative

Your Family Isn’t Meant to Navigate Reintegration Alone

Coming home after treatment is one of the hardest transitions a young person will ever make — whether they’re an adolescent or a young adult. They’re stepping out of a structured, supportive environment and back into a world where most peers have no idea what they’ve been through or how much effort it took to get here.

This collaborative exists to make sure they don’t have to make that transition without a community that understands.

In their track, returning adolescents and young adults get a space where they can:

  • make sense of their experience

  • talk through real-life challenges

  • hear what has helped others in similar situations

  • feel the relief of being with people who get it

That connection alone is one of the strongest protective factors against regression, shame, and hopelessness in the first months after coming home.

In the parent track, you receive an equally critical layer of support. Parents connect with others navigating the same fears, hopes, and day-to-day realities of reintegration. You’re not left second-guessing what’s “normal,” wondering whether a boundary is appropriate, or trying to piece together next steps alone. Instead, you gain steady guidance, shared wisdom, and the reassurance that your child is supported outside the home — especially when their local peer group may not be equipped to offer that.

At its core, the purpose of this two-track collaborative is simple:

To make sure both the returning young person and their parents have the community, structure, and grounding they need during the most vulnerable phase of the treatment journey — and to help families move forward with steadiness rather than fear.

Who this Collaborative Supports

This collaborative is built for young people returning home after wilderness or residential treatment — and the parents supporting them through the transition.

For the young person:

This is a space where they don’t have to explain or defend their experience. Everyone here has walked a similar path — the uncertainty, the hope, the awkwardness of stepping back into everyday life after treatment.

The group helps them:

  • Feel understood instead of alone

  • Talk through challenges with people who genuinely get it

  • Compare notes on what’s worked for others

  • Stay connected to their goals and values

  • Build confidence in themselves and the reintegration process

  • Normalize the emotional ups and downs that are entirely expected in this phase

Belonging is a powerful buffer against relapse into old patterns. This collaborative gives them a peer group that acts as guardrails, not pressure.

For parents:

Parents often feel like they’re tiptoeing through reintegration — unsure when to lean in, when to step back, and whether their child is truly ready for more independence. This group helps you make sense of what’s normal, what’s concerning, and how to respond without slipping into fear-based or crisis-driven patterns.

Parents gain:

  • Connection with others navigating the same daily challenges

  • Clarity around boundaries, expectations, and communication

  • Normalization of the emotional rollercoaster of early return-home

  • Tools to support your child without overfunctioning or tightening too much

  • Confidence that your child has a peer community invested in their success

You don’t have to hold this phase alone — and neither does your child.

Meet Your Facilitator

Ciara brings a deeply personal understanding to reintegration as a graduate of wilderness therapy and therapeutic boarding school. Through her organization, Homing Instinct, she has mentored teens for several years, helping them reconnect with their strengths, stay grounded, and make sense of their treatment experience. With a background in psychology, English, and youth-focused work, Ciara offers a steady, compassionate presence for adolescents navigating the transition home.

Meeting Details

Format: Virtual

  1. Frequency: Weekly

  2. Duration: 3-month initial commitment (option to continue)

  3. Group Size: 8–10 members

  4. Parent Group: Included

  5. Facilitator: Ciara Fanlo

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 FAQs

  • Teens and young adults who are:

    • Transitioning home from residential treatment, wilderness therapy, or therapeutic boarding school

    • Rebuilding life at home after a structured environment

    • Wanting connection after treatment ends and community suddenly disappears

    • Figuring out school, friendships, identity, motivation, and emotions

    • Looking for support, accountability, grounding, and a space that feels real

    This group is specifically designed for people who have spent time in a treatment program and are navigating the unique challenges that come with returning home.

  • We meet weekly on Zoom for 60–90 minutes.
    Your initial commitment is 12 weeks, which allows enough time to build trust, experience real momentum, and settle into the group.
    After 12 weeks, you’re welcome to continue month-to-month if it’s supportive.

  • We run on rolling / open enrollment, so you can join when it works for you.
    If you’re finishing up graduation, IOP, or preparing to come home, you’re welcome to join at whatever point in your transition makes sense.
    Once you sign up, you can simply join the very next group session (as long as there’s space).

  • This collaborative is rooted in peer connection, community, and belonging. It’s not therapy and it’s not focused on clinical goals or therapeutic skill-building.
    Instead, it’s grounded in:

    • Real support from people who get it

    • Shared wisdom from lived experience

    • Community after leaving a structured environment

    It’s a space that feels human, honest, and supportive.

  • No. This group is for you. What you share in group stays in the group.

  • Parents are not part of the teen group.
    We offer a separate parent support space if they want guidance on how to support you well — but that’s totally separate. We don’t relay what you say, and groups don’t overlap.

  • No. This is peer support & coaching, not clinical therapy or group treatment.

  • That’s welcome. You can participate at your own pace — listening is participating too. You never have to share more than you want to.

  • Anything that feels real in the transition home, like:

    • Navigating family tension, home contracts, rules, or sobriety agreements

    • Returning to school, being behind academically, or switching schools

    • Loneliness + disconnection

    • Managing emotions, urges, and identity shifts

    • Rebuilding trust with parents

    • Independence and boundaries

    • Trying to make up for “lost time”

    • The weird mix of relief, grief, hope, and fear

    Nothing is off-limits, and you only share what you’re comfortable with.

  • No stress. Life happens.
    You’ll receive weekly themes and journal prompts to stay connected even if you miss a week.

  • Small enough to feel safe and personal — typically 8–10 people.

  • You’re not alone — a lot of people feel that way after treatment.
    After months (or years) of groups, therapists, processing, and being asked to open up constantly, it’s totally normal to feel exhausted by it.

    This collaborative is different.

    You’re not expected to be “on” or dig into deep emotional processing every week.
    There’s no pressure to be vulnerable, have breakthroughs, or work on yourself in a therapy way.

    This group is about:

    • Community, not clinical work

    • Real-life conversations, not emotional excavation

    • Being with others who understand, not being analyzed

    • Support and grounding, even if you’re quiet

    • Belonging, not performance

    You can listen, show up as you are, and take what’s helpful.
    There is no pressure to share more than you want to — or at all.

    A lot of people say group actually becomes a break from therapy, not another place they have to “do work.”